Ufika ekhaya emva kosuku olude emsebenzini kwaye inja yakho ikubulisa emnyango - utyibilika umsila kunye nokuncamisa okungakhathali. Uyancuma, unombulelo ngolu hlobo lwamkelekileyo. Kwaye ke ukujonga kwakho kuya kancinci emacaleni. Kwimiqamelo oyithenge kule veki iphelileyo, ethe saa phantsi igcwele yonke indawo... Ecaleni kwayo phumla iiteki zakho ezitsha, ezikrazukileyo, kunye nejezi oyithandayo, esetyenziswe ngokucacileyo njengebhedi yenja yakho, nayo iphakathi kwentsalela. .
Ukuba esi siganeko sibuhlungu sivakala siqhelekile kuwe, ngoko siyakhawuleza ukukuqinisekisa - awuwedwa! Abanini bezinja abaninzi baye bahlukana ngokukhawuleza nezinye zezinto abazithandayo ngale ndlela. Kuba izilwanyana ezininzi zidla ngokutshabalalisa izinto xa zizodwa. Kodwa kutheni besenza oko? Isizathu siyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zesilwanyana kunye nomoya, kodwa isithukuthezi kunye nokukruquka kugqama njengezona zinto zixhaphakileyo ezikhuthazayo.
Ingcambu yokuziphatha
Ngokutsho kukaGqr. Gregory Burns, isazi ngemithambo-luvo kwiYunivesithi yase-Emory eAtlanta, eGeorgia, izinja zinamandla angokweemvakalelo nobukrelekrele bomntwana omncinane. Bayakwazi uthando kunye nothando, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba abaqondi ukuba xa uphuma endlwini, uya kubuya kungekudala. Becinezelekile yaye becinezelekile, benza ngokukrazula nokuluma yonke into abanokuyifikelela. Kakade ke, asingawo onke ama-quadrupeds asabela ngolu hlobo. Yiyo loo nto oogqirha bezilwanyana bengaqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ezinye izilwanyana zinyamezela isithukuthezi ngaphezu kwezinye. Ubalo lubonisa ukuba izinja ezamkelweyo zityekele kakhulu ekukhathazekeni ngokwahlukana kunezo bezihleli nabaninizo ukusukela zisengamantshontsho. Ukuxhalaba ngokwahlukana ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka emva kokutshintsha kwesiqhelo senja kunye nendlela yokuphila, njengomsebenzi omtsha ofuna ukuba uphume endlwini yakho emva kwexesha.
Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba inja yakho idikwe nje. Bonke abahlobo abanemilenze emine, kunye neentlobo ezincinci, bafuna umsebenzi oqhelekileyo womzimba kunye nengqondo. Izilwanyana zethu zasekhaya ziziva ngcono xa zineshedyuli eqhelekileyo equka imidlalo eyahlukahlukeneyo, imithambo kunye nokuhlalisana. Oku, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyahluka ngokwenzala. Kodwa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, inja engazange yanele kwezi zinto inokuzama ukufumana oko ikufunayo ngeendlela ezingakhiyo.
Ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha
Inja ayinayo indlela yokukuxelela ukuba idiniwe okanye ixhalabile, ngoko ngumsebenzi wakho njengomniniyo ukuzama ukuqonda ukuba izama ukukubonisa ntoni ngokuziphatha kwayo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba ucwangciso lwakhe ludinga umsebenzi omninzi, zama oku kuqala. Ungalibali ukumkhokelela kwizinto zokudlala ngelixa ulapho, naye, ukuze azibonele ngokwakhe xa umkile.
Ngamanye amaxesha unokucinga ukuba wenze konke onako ukugcina inja yakho ekuboniseni ukuziphatha okuyingozi xa ungekho. Umthathe uhambo olude, wanikel' ingqalelo ekudlaleni nasekumwoleni, ekutyeni nasekuphatheni izibiliboco... Kuhle kakhulu ukuza kuthi ga ngoku! Kodwa kamsinya nje ukuba ubambe izitshixo zakho, isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sibonakala sikwimiyalelo yokuba novalo. Umqeqeshi wezinja ezichwephesha uKarin Lyles waseToronto wabelane ngePetMD ukuba ngamanye amaxesha izinja zikhangela iimpawu zokuba abanini bazo sele beza kuzishiya, kwaye zibaxinzelele.
Ngamanye amaxesha into elula njengokuthatha izitshixo okanye ukubeka izicathulo zakho kwelinye igumbi kunokuqhawula uxhulumaniso lwesilwanyana kwaye luthintele ukudibanisa ezi zenzo kunye nokushiya.
Nokuba uqinisekile ukuba uyayazi into ebangela ukuba isilwanyana sakho sitshabalalise izinto xa ungekho, luluvo olulungileyo ukuxoxa ngalo nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana. Amava ochwephesha beengcali aya kukunceda uqonde ukuba ukuziphatha kwesilwanyana kubonisa ukuqala kokuhlukana kokukhathazeka, ukungazinzi okanye ukudinwa.
Nokuba iyintoni na ingxaki, khumbula ukuba ukuyilungisa kuya kuthatha ixesha. Kwaye ngeli xesha, akufanele ulibale ukuba isilwanyana sakho asizitshabalalisi izinto zakho ezizithandayo. Izama ukubonisa imeko yayo yeemvakalelo – nokuba kukukruquka okanye ukuxhalaba, akukho nanye kuzo eya kuhamba ukuba uyayohlwaya emva koko.
Mqondise kwenye indawo, mnike ezinye iindlela, kodwa zama ukungangxoli okanye uzame ukumenza azive kakubi.
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