ʻIke pinepine ʻia nā holoholona purring me ka wiwo ʻole a me ka wiwo ʻole. Akā i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki iā lākou ke hilahila a makaʻu i ko lākou puni. Nui nā kumu no kēia, akā i kekahi manawa ʻo kā lākou genetics wale nō. ʻO kekahi manawa ma muli o kahi traumatic i hala. ʻO ka mea pōmaikaʻi, nui nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke launa pū me nā pōpoki hilahila. Ke launa pū me ka pōpoki hilahila, e neʻe mālie i ʻole e makaʻu iā ia.
E hana i kahi ʻoluʻolu e loaʻa ai nā wahi he nui e peʻe ai a mālama i nā leo nui i ka liʻiliʻi. E kali mau a hiki mai kāu pōpoki iā ʻoe a hoʻohana i nā leo palupalu a mālie ke kamaʻilio pū me ia. ʻO ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi hana maʻamau e kōkua i kāu pōpoki e ʻoluʻolu aʻe, e like me ka hoʻohana ʻana i nā mea maʻamau i kēlā me kēia manawa e hōʻike ai ka pōpoki i ka wiwo ʻole.
Hōʻike ka hilahila i nā pōpoki ma nā ʻano like ʻole. ʻIke ʻia kekahi poʻe makaʻu a makaʻu, aʻo kekahi poʻe e hoʻi i ka home i kahi e palekana ai lākou. ʻOiai inā ua hana ʻoe i kahi wahi palekana a palekana no kāu pōpoki, ʻaʻole lawa paha ia e pale iā ia mai ka makaʻu.
No ke aha i hilahila ai kaʻu pōpoki?
Nui nā kumu e hopohopo ai nā pōpoki a hopohopo. ʻO ka mea maʻamau e iho i lalo i:
• Genetics: Makaʻu maoli kekahi mau pōpoki.
• Hoʻoulu ʻia: ʻO nā pōpoki ʻaʻole i hoʻopili pono ʻia e lilo i mea hilahila a makaʻu i nā kānaka.
• Nā hana i hala: Hiki i ka ʻeha a me ka hoʻomāinoino ke hoʻoweliweli i nā pōpoki.
Pēlā nō, hiki i nā kumu kaiapuni ke hoʻohilahila a hoʻihoʻi i kahi hoaaloha purring. Aia lākou:
• Nā holoholona ʻē aʻe ma ka home
• Ka leo nui
• keiki laha
• Neʻe i kahi home hou
• nā mea aloha ʻole
No ka hōʻoia ʻana i kahi ola ʻoluʻolu a hauʻoli no kāu pōpoki, makemake paha ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i ke aʻo ʻana iā ia e emi ka hilahila a me ka hilinaʻi i kou alo.
Pehea e hoʻonui ai i ka hilinaʻi o ka pōpoki
Me nā ʻenehana pilikanaka maikaʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoikaika i ka hilinaʻi o kāu pōpoki i mea e emi ai ka hilahila a me ka ʻoluʻolu a puni ʻoe. Pono e hoʻomanaʻo ʻaʻole ia e hana no nā pōpoki āpau. Akā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohauʻoli iā ʻoe i ko lākou kaiapuni, me ka nānā ʻole i ko lākou ʻano. No ka hoʻonui i ka hilinaʻi o kāu pōpoki, e hoʻāʻo i kēia:
• Hāʻawi i ka pili kino
• Hana i kahi hana maʻamau
• E hana i kahi kaiapuni palekana
• Hāʻawi i nā wahi e peʻe ai
Pehea e loaʻa ai i kahi pōpoki hilahila e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe
He hana maikaʻi ke kūkulu ʻana i ka pilina me kāu pōpoki. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ʻo ia paha ke kumu i koho ai ʻoe i kāu pipi. Akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi ka hana ʻana, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi inā pili ʻoe i kahi pōpoki hilahila.
Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole nalowale nā mea a pau. Me kekahi manawa a me ke ahonui, hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi i kāu pōpoki. E hahai i kēia mau ʻanuʻu e hoʻomaka ai:
• E mahalo i ka hakahaka o kāu pōpoki
• Mai huhū i kāu pōpoki me kāna hana. ʻO ka ʻuā ʻana a me ka ʻāhewa ʻana iā ia e hoʻoweliweli hou aku iā ia.
• Nānā i ka ʻōlelo kino
• E aʻo i nā palena o kāu pōpoki
• Kākoʻo maikaʻi - e uku iā ia me nā meaʻai i kona wā i ʻoi aku ka wiwo ʻole a hele mai iā ʻoe
Pehea e kiʻi ai i kahi pōpoki hilahila e hele mai iā ʻoe
He mea maʻamau ka makemake e pipi a pāʻani me kāu pōpoki. He mea paʻakikī kēia ke hana inā loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi pōpoki hilahila, no laila pono ʻoe e paipai iā ia e hele mai iā ʻoe i kona wā e ʻoluʻolu ai. E mālama i kahi noho mālie a mālie i nā manawa a pau. Ma kēia ala, e hoʻomaka ana kāu pōpoki e emi ka hilahila.
E hoʻoikaika i kāu pōpoki e hele mai iā ʻoe me kēia mau ala maʻalahi:
• E noho mālie ma kahi kokoke i kāu pōpoki no kekahi manawa, e ʻae iā ia e honi iā ʻoe.
• E kamaʻilio me ia ma ke ʻano mālie a mālie.
• Kū mālie inā hoʻokokoke kāu pōpoki iā ʻoe. ʻO ka neʻe koke ʻana e hoʻoweliweli iā ia.
• Hāʻawi i kāu pōpoki ma hope o kona hoʻokokoke ʻana iā ʻoe. E hoʻonui mālie i ka manawa āu e hāʻawi ai i kāu pōpoki.
• Kiola mālie i ka pōpō a i ʻole nā mea pāʻani ʻē aʻe e pāʻani pū ai.
• Ina holo ka popoki, mai alualu. E ho'āʻo hou inā ʻoi aku ka mālie a emi ʻole ka hopohopo.
ʻO ka lawe ʻana i kahi pōpoki palekana mai kāna "shell" he mea maikaʻi, akā ʻaʻole hiki i nā manawa a pau. Hiki i ka pōpoki hilahila ke lilo i pipi maikaʻi, akā pono ʻoe e mahalo i kona mau palena a e akahai i ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ia.
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