Mofanana ndi dziko lina lililonse, pali malamulo ambiri osalembedwa. Ngati mukukhala ku Portugal, kapena ngati ndinu woyendera alendo, werengani lemba ili kuti mupeze malangizo omwe angakupangitseni kulandiridwa bwino mdzikolo.
Mukulowa m'malo odyera achipwitikizi kapena malo odyera, kuti mudye chakudya chachikhalidwe cha Chipwitikizi. Ndinu wamanjenje, angakunyozeni kuti ndinu mlendo? Mumayang'ana pazakudya kapena chakudya chowonetsedwa, ndipo mumafunsa woperekera zakudya (kapena Mulungu aletse manijala) ndi mbale yanji yomwe amapangira nkhomaliro.
Amakuyang'anani ndi nkhope “iyo”… Mukudziwa, nkhope ya chiweruzo… Amaloza ku “zapadera zapanyumba”, ngati akukuwa “walowa kuno kufunafuna chiyani china osati ichi?”.
Mumamva kuti m'mimba mwanu mukutembenuka, ndipo sinjala yomwe mumamva musanalowe m'malo… Mumamva kuti ndinu wamng'ono, mwachepetsedwa kukhala "mlendo wopanda chidziwitso" kapena zina zotero. Mumamwa madzi omwe munalamula, mukuyang'ana anthu ena omwe ali pamalowo. Osati kuti akukamba za inu, koma mukudziwa kuti munthu mmodzi anati “Kodi alendo ameneyu akufuna chiyani kuno?”.
Tsopano woperekera zakudya ndi manejala akukuyang'anani pamene akulankhula, ngati kuti mukufunikira kudziimba mlandu. Wina ali kukhitchini akuitana waiter, amapita komweko ndipo akabwerako abwera ndi mbale, mbale yako…
Amachiyika patebulo, mumati "Zikomo", amati "De nada" ndi nkhope yayitali. “Sunalakwitse chilichonse”, mumati, “Ingodyani chakudyacho”… Chakudyacho ndi chokoma kwambiri, chonyozeka, koma chabwino kwambiri. Mtengo wake ndi wabwino kwambiri, komanso pafupi ndi malo omwe mukukhala… Ndiwosavuta kwambiri.
Ndiye mukapitanso kumeneko, adawoneka okondwa mutachoka, adawona kuti mumakonda chakudyacho, ndiye mwina sizinali zoyipa.
Mukalowa kachiwiri mukuwona woperekera zakudya yemwe adakutumizirani komaliza, "Moni!" akuti akukudziwani. "Moni" ukhoza kukhala pazifukwa zoipitsitsa, monga "mlendo uja kachiwiri ...", koma mumamupatsa mwayi wokayika, "hello" ikuwoneka yabwino kwambiri ...
Momasuka kwambiri kuposa nthawi yomaliza, mumayitanitsa mbale yomweyi, koma woperekera zakudyayo akuti "Ayi, ayi, mbaleyo ndi zinthu zoyambirira. Popeza unaikonda kwambiri tikuphikirani mbale yamwambo yeniyeni.” Wow, simumafunsanso kuti ndi mbale yanji, mumangonena kuti: "Bweretsani ndiye ..."
Ndipo ngati sizili bwino kuposa mbale ina… Wow! Izi ndi zosaneneka! Bwana amabwera kudzakufunsani ngati mwaikonda mbaleyo, simungoyankha kuti inde, koma mumafunsanso komwe mbaleyo inachokera, ndipo amakuuzani zonse za izo… ” ndi kapu ya chakumwa. Ndipo zina zonse ndi mbiriyakale…
Izi sizingachitike mwachangu, koma izi zitha kukuchitikirani. Alendo ambiri amandiuza kuti Achipwitikizi sakhala ochereza kapena abwino nawo, koma sizingakhale kutali ndi chowonadi…
Chowonadi ndi ichi: Chipwitikizi (makamaka okalamba) ndi ochepa kwambiri, ovuta kukondweretsa poyamba, koma njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera "chipale chofewa" ichi ndi kusonyeza kupirira komanso makamaka kukhulupirika.
Chifukwa chake, mwachitsanzo, m'nkhaniyi, "inu" mutha kupitilira kusamvana koyambako popitanso komweko, kuwonetsa kuti ngakhale ndikuwoneka kokayikitsa mumakondabe chakudya / malo odyera.
Chifukwa chake muyenera kungopambana mayeso opirira ...
Ndipo "kusakhulupirira" uku sikungoyang'ana alendo okha, inenso ndikhoza kugwirizana ndi izi, kotero musamachite ngati "kusalana" kwa inu panokha ... 🙂
