56% ya anthu azaka zapakati pa 18-34 adanena kuti anali ndi maloto amodzi anyengo m'moyo wawo, poyerekeza ndi 14% ya opitilira 55s.
Martha Crawford adayamba kukhala ndi maloto okhudza kusintha kwanyengo pafupifupi zaka 11-12 zapitazo, nkhani yomwe ili ndi mutu wamutu wa Time idayamba.
Mosiyana ndi maloto ake ambiri amene amawakumbukira m’mbuyomo, ameneŵa sanali ang’onoang’ono kapena opanda tanthauzo—anali “omveka bwino,” akukumbukira motero. “Iwo sanafune kuwatanthauzira kwenikweni.” Mmodzi, amawerenga buku lofotokoza za kusintha kwa nyengo, kenako n’kuliponya kumbuyo kwa kama wake, akunamizira kuti kulibe. Pankhani ina, iye anakhalapo pa nkhani yokambidwa ndi katswiri wa zanyengo. Koma pulofesayo akuyamba kumulalatira chifukwa chosalabadira, ndipo amalephera maphunzirowo. Mfundo yake ndi yomveka bwino, akutero Crawford, wogwira ntchito zachipatala wovomerezeka kuti: “Simusamala, ndipo muyenera kusamala.”
Malotowa pamapeto pake adamulimbikitsa kuti ayambe ntchito ya Climate Dreams Project mu 2019, ndipo kuyambira pamenepo wakhala akupanga malo omwe anthu amatha kugawana nthano zokhudzana ndi maloto anyengo, makamaka osadziwika.
Maloto amodzi omwe aperekedwa m'gululi ndi akuti anthu akukumba maenje m'chipululu kuti nyanja zomwe zikukwera zizikhala ndi malo opita. Loto lina likunena za masewera a mpira wa "Chigumula" momwe osewera amayandama pamachubu amkati mu theka lachiwiri.
Munthu winanso amene anali ndi maloto anayi a nyengo anafotokoza za chimodzi chimene anthu mabiliyoni ambiri anathira m’chipinda china chachikulu chomwe chinkaoneka ngati bwalo la masewera a pakompyuta, koma chinali chachikulu moti n’kukwanira chiwerengero cha anthu padziko lonse. Iwo analemba kuti: “Pakutha kwa lotolo, nkhope yonse ya dziko lapansi inali yosiyana. Anali ataundana kwambiri ndipo gawo lokhalo lokhalamo anthu linali phiri lalikulu lokhala ndi mzinda pamenepo.
Kusintha kwa nyengo kukuwoneka kuti kwadzipanga kukhala "nsalu ya maloto," monga momwe Crawford akunenera.
Kuphunzira maloto kungakhale koterera. Sitimazikumbukira nthawi zonse, ndipo kutanthauzira kwawo kumakhala kokhazikika. Koma malinga ndi kafukufuku wa anthu a 1,009 omwe adachitidwa ndi The Harris Poll mu June m'malo mwa atolankhani, anthu opitilira gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu a anthu aku US alota za kusintha kwanyengo kamodzi m'miyoyo yawo.
Malinga ndi kafukufukuyu, zithunzi ndi zomverera zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi malotowa zimasiyana mosiyanasiyana. Maloto ambiri a nyengo ya anthu amagwirizanitsidwa ndi nyengo yoopsa kapena masoka achilengedwe; zochepa ndi za udzudzu ndi ziwala kapena za atsogoleri andale ndi malamulo. Zomwe zimanenedwa kawirikawiri ndi mantha ndi nkhawa, kupatula zaka chikwi, omwe amawoneka kuti ali ndi maloto a chiyembekezo.
Kuchuluka kwa maloto a nyengo kumachepa ndi zaka: 56% ya anthu azaka zapakati pa 18 ndi 34 adanena kuti anali ndi maloto amodzi a nyengo m'moyo wawo, poyerekeza ndi 14% ya anthu a zaka zapakati pa 55. Amuna akuwoneka kuti akulota kwambiri kusintha kwa nyengo kuposa akazi. Ndipo anthu amtundu amalota za izo mochuluka kuposa azungu.
Kuphatikizidwa pamodzi, deta imatipatsa malingaliro atsopano a momwe dziko lingakhalire ndi kusintha kwa nyengo.
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