Munyika umo zvisiri zvechitendero zvinozivikanwa uye kusiyana kwezvitendero kuri kuramba kuchiwedzera, zvakakosha kudzidzisa vana kukosha kwekuzviremekedza (uye kune mamwe mabhuku akanaka). Nekuita izvi, tinogona kukurudzira kunzwisisa uye kushivirira, uye kubatsira vana kukudziridza pfungwa yekunzwira tsitsi netsitsi kune avo vanogona kuve nekutenda kwakasiyana nekwavo. Munyaya ino, tichaongorora kubatsira kunoita kudzidzisa vana kuremekedza zvitendero zvese.
Sei kudzidzisa vana nezvekusiyana kwezvitendero kwakakosha.
Kudzidzisa vana zvese nezvechitendero nekusiyana kwezvitendero kwakakosha nekuti zvinosimudzira ruremekedzo nekunzwisisa kwezvitendero zvese. Inobatsira vana kukudziridza tsitsi uye tsitsi kune avo vangave vane zvitendero zvakasiyana pane zvavo. Zvinobatsirawo kubvisa fungidziro nerusaruro zvinogona kukonzera rusarura uye kusashivirira. Nokudzidzisa vana nezvezvitendero zvakasiyana, tinogona kugadzira nzanga inosanganisirwa uye inogamuchirwa umo munhu wese anonzwa achikosheswa uye achiremekedzwa.
Nzira yekusuma sei kusiyana kwezvitendero kuvana.
Kuzivisa kusiyana kwezvitendero kuvana kunogona kuitwa nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana. Imwe nzira ndeyokuverenga mabhuku ane vanhu vanobva muzvitendero zvakasiyana kana tsika dzakasiyana. Imwe nzira ndeyekuenda kumitambo yetsika kana mitambo inopemberera zvitendero zvakasiyana. Zvakakosha kutaura nyaya zvineruremekedzo uye zvinoenderana nezera rako uye kukurudzira vana kubvunza mibvunzo uye kugovana zvavanosangana nazvo nezvavanotenda. Nokugadzira mhoteredzo yakachengeteka uye yakavhurika yekurukurirano, vana vanogona kudzidza kuonga nokuremekedza kusiyana kwezvitendero nemaitiro ezvitendero.
Ndinomhanyira mubhuku rakapfava asi rakazara (kune mamwe) rinobata nyaya yacho zvakanaka, uye rakanzi “Zvose NezveChitendero", nekambani yekudhinda DK (izvo zvingave zvakanaka kuti inoshandura uye inoshambadza mune mimwe mitauro). Inopindura mibvunzo yakadai sokuti Rudzidziso rwokutanga rwakatangira kupi uye zita rarwo raiva ripi? Kusatenda Mwari chii chaizvo? Sei vamwe vanhu vachipfeka ngowani? Iri bhuku rinogovera mhinduro kumibvunzo iyi nemimwe yakawanda pamusoro porudzidziso nokuda kwavana vanobvunza mibvunzo yakaoma.
Sekuona kwangu “All About Religion” isumo yakanaka kuzvitendero zvikuru zvenyika, zvinosanganisira chiKristu, chiIslam, chiJuda, chiHindu, Scientology, Jainism, Buddhism nezvimwe, uye ine sumo yakanyorwa naAled Jones, munhu anozivikanwa zvikuru weredhiyo neterevhizheni. Bhuku racho rinoronda nhoroondo yezvitendero zvakasiyana-siyana nezvitendero pasi rose uye rinorerutsa misoro yakaoma kuita zvikamu zvinogayiwa.
Kubva pakutenda kwekutanga kusvika kumasangano ezvinamato uye zvemweya, All About Religion inopa chokwadi chaicho. Mwana anogona kudzidza nezvemagwaro echitendero akasiyana-siyana, kujairana nenzvimbo dzekunamatira, uye kuona kuti nei vatsigiri vezvimwe zvitendero vachidya zvimwe zvokudya uye kupfeka zvimwe zvipfeko. Kutaura idi, iri bhuku duku rine mapeji 96 rinokurudzira kunzwisisa, kushivirira, uye kuremekedza vanhu vezvitendero zvose.
Ndinofanira kutaura kuti, kunyange yakanangidzirwa kuvana, basa iri raizoita zvakanaka zvakare kune nyanzvi dzakawanda mundima dze Rusununguko Rwechitendero kana Kutenda, uye vezvenhau, vasingashandisi hunyanzvi hwavo kana zvasvika pamafambiro akashoropodzwa nevanhu vari muhurumende kana munhau.
Zvakanakira kudzidzisa vana nezvekusiyana kwezvitendero.
Kudzidzisa vana nezvekusiyana kwezvitendero kune zvakawanda zvinobatsira. Inosimudzira ruremekedzo uye kunzwisisa kwezvitendero zvose, inoderedza rusaruro nerusarura, uye inokurudzira tsitsi netsitsi. Zvinobatsirawo vana kukudziridza hunyanzvi hwekufunga hwakadzama uye maonero akafara pamusoro penyika. Kupfurikidza nokudzidza pamusoro pezvitendero zvakasiyana-siyana, vana vanogona kuwana nzwisiso iri nani yezvitendero zvavo vamene nemipimo, pamwe chete neizvo zvevamwe. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kushiviriro yakakura uye kugamuchirwa, uye pakupedzisira, nzanga ine rugare uye inowirirana.
Kugadzirisa matambudziko anogona kuitika uye kusanzwisisa.
Kunyange zvazvo kudzidzisa vana nezvekusiyana-siyana kwezvitendero kwakakosha, kunogonawo kupa mamwe matambudziko uye maonero asina kunaka. Vamwe vabereki nevadzidzisi vanganetseka nezvokugumbura kana kuvhiringidza vana vane zvitendero zvakasiyana, asi vamwe vangatya kuti kudzidzisa nezvezvimwe zvitendero kungakanganisa kutenda kwavo. Zvakakosha kuti gadzirisa zvinonetsa izvi uye kupa mashoko akajeka uye akarurama pamusoro pezvitendero zvakasiyana-siyana noruremekedzo uye zvinoenderana nezera. Nekuita izvi, tinokwanisa kubatsira vana kukudziridza kunzwisisa kwakadzama uye kukoshesa kusiyana kwezvinotendwa netsika nemagariro munyika yedu.
Kukurudzira pfungwa dzakavhurika uye tsitsi muvana.
Kudzidzisa vana nezvekusiyana-siyana kwezvitendero kunogona kuva netapuro huru pakukura kwavo kwekunzwisisa uye tsitsi. Nokuita kuti vana vaone zvavanotenda uye tsika dzakasiyana-siyana, vanogona kudzidza kunzwisisa uye kuremekedza kusiyana kwevamwe. Ikoku kunogona kutungamirira kunzwisiso huru yokunzwira urombo nokunzwisisa, izvo zvingabetsera kuderedza rusaruro nokusarura. Uyezve, kudzidzisa vana nezve kusiyana kwezvitendero inogona kubatsira kusimudzira hunyanzvi hwekufunga uye kuvakurudzira kubvunza mibvunzo uye kutsvaga ruzivo nezvezvitendero netsika dzakasiyana. Pakazara, kudzidzisa vana nezvekusiyana kwezvitendero idanho rakakosha mukusimudzira nzanga inoshivirira uye inosanganisirwa.
