“Indlela Yokusinda Ekufeni” ikwamalunga nohambo lombhali, inkcazo ngobomi bomntu, ukusuka kulutsha olunemvukelo ukuya kubomi obanelisayo, ukunceda abanye bafezekise amandla abo apheleleyo. Kolo hambo, akazange ayeke ukukhangela iimpendulo ezingcono kwiimfihlelo zobomi—izicombululo ezisebenza rhoqo. Abaninzi kwabo bayifundayo le ncwadi baya kukuxelela ukuba unokuzifumana kuyo ezo mpendulo.
"Ukufa kunokugqalwa njengento engokwemvelo njengobomi ngokwabo. Abukho ubomi ngaphandle kokufa. Iqala kwaye iqhubeke ixesha elithile, ngethemba elide, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, iyaphela. Kwaye kungcono ukwazi ngaphambi kokuba iphele. Mhlawumbi unokufunda okuthile ngayo, into engeyiyo kangako, into enomlingo, ekufanele ukuba uyazi.” uthi uNiels Kjeldsen, umbhali wencwadi "Indlela Yokusinda Ekufeni".
Kwisahluko sokugqibela “Yintoni omawuyenze kwaye ungayenzi xa ushiya umzimba” UKjeldsen uthetha “namalungu amathathu omntu” aze abonise ukuba usenokugqiba ukuxhotyiswa “ulwazi olwaneleyo ukunceda nawuphi na umntu ofuna ukwazi. Iqinisekisa uhambo olukhuselekileyo phakathi kobomi. Wena kunye nabo ubathandayo niyidinga loo nto."
Kobu bomi buxakekileyo siphila “kwizinto ezininzi kakhulu ezinokwenzeka ngoko kutheni ungabi kwicala elikhuselekileyo. Kufana 'neinshorensi yobomi' yokomoya oyifumanayo” utshilo uKjeldsen The European Times.
Ewe, uKjeldsen uthi, "ungayiyeka ibe lithamsanqa kwaye unethemba lokuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle", kodwa ngokutsho kombhali ofunde isifundo iminyaka emininzi kakhulu"ayikhuthazwa. Musa ukuthemba ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, kodwa yazi ngaphambi kokuba uhambe” iqinisekisa ngokuzola nangokuqiniseka.
Emva kokufa, nokuba umzimba uyatshiswa okanye ungcwatywe, siyazi ukuba inyama iyafa. “Kodwa kuthekani ngomoya ophilisa umzimba, owunike ubuntu? Kwenzeka ntoni kuyo emva kokufa komzimba? Abanye bathi le nto ilawula umzimba ngumoya okanye umphefumlo” utsho umbhali.
Abanye basebenzisa amagama ahlukeneyo. Kwenzeka njani ukuba kubekho iimbono ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo ngombandela obaluleke ngolo hlobo? Oku koko kugutyungelwe kule ncwadi. Kwisahluko sokugqibela, uya kufumana umzimba, ingqondo kunye nomoya uchazwe ngokweenkcukacha ngeembekiselo ezifanelekileyo.
Elona xesha lide, inzululwazi ayikwazanga ukuqaphela umoya, ngenxa yesizathu esilula sokuba umoya awungowomzimba, kwaye isayensi ibisoloko ijongana nendalo iphela. Nangona kunjalo, Niels Kjeldsen uyaqhubeka, “ixesha lobuchwephesha ekugqibeleni lihambele phambili ngokwaneleyo ukubonisa ukuba kukho inkalo yokomoya ebomini kwaye inokulinganiswa".
"Isizathu sale ncwadi", uxelela umbhali"kukucacisa apho umphefumlo usiya khona emva kokuba umzimba ufile“. Kutheni umntu efuna ukwazi? Ewe, xa ufikelela kwiminyaka ethile okanye ulahlekelwe ngabantu abaninzi obathandayo, ukufa luhlobo lokuphoswa ebusweni bakho, uthanda okanye awuthandi. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba "ukufa kusenokungabi kubi njengoko ukhokelwe ukuba ukholwe” uqukumbela ngelithi.
"Awuzange unikwe incwadi yemiyalelo yendlela yokuphila ubomi ekuzalweni kwakho, kodwa uye wafumana amacebiso amaninzi-alungileyo okanye amabi-endleleni. Akukhange kubekho myalelo konke konke malunga nendlela yokusingatha isiphelo sobu bomi ngokufanelekileyoU-Niels undixelele, "le ncwadi ilungisa ukushiyeka".
Ndimele nditsho ukuba uNiels wandishiya nelekese ngeesentimitha ezimbini ukusuka emilebeni yam, kwaye ngoku ndiyakuxelela, emva kulula kwaye ubambe ukufundwa kwamaphepha ali-117, ukuba le ncwadi yeyakho ngokuqinisekileyo, nokuba uyakholwa ngoku okanye hayi. Ndiyathemba ukuba nawe ukonwabele ukufunda.
