Izilwanyana ezihlanjululwayo zihlala zibonakala zizithembile kwaye zingoyiki. Kodwa eneneni, banokuba neentloni kwaye bayoyike indawo ebangqongileyo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zoku, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha lufuzo lwabo nje. Ngamanye amaxesha kungenxa yexesha elibuhlungu elidluleyo. Ngethamsanqa, zininzi iindlela onokunxibelelana ngazo neekati ezineentloni. Xa usebenzisana nekati enentloni, hamba kancinci ukuze ungoyiki.
Yenza indawo ekhululekileyo equka iindawo ezininzi zokuzimela kwaye ugcine ingxolo enkulu incinci. Soloko ulindele ikati yakho ukuba ize kuwe kwaye usebenzise iithowuni ezithambileyo nezithambileyo xa uthetha nayo. Ukuseka inkqubo engaguqukiyo kuya kunceda ikati yakho izive ikhululekile, njengoko iya kusebenzisa ukuphatha rhoqo xa ikati ibonisa isibindi.
Iintloni kwiikati zizibonakalisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ezinye iikati ezinoloyiko zibonakala zisoyika kwaye zisoyika, ngelixa ezinye zigoduka apho ziziva zikhuselekile. Nokuba udale indawo ekhuselekileyo nekhuselekileyo yekati yakho, kusenokunganeli ukumnqanda ukuba angoyiki.
Kutheni ikati yam ineentloni?
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba iikati ziziva zinovalo kwaye ziyathandabuza. Ngokuqhelekileyo yehla ku:
• Imfuzo: Ezinye iikati zoyika ngokwendalo.
• Ukukhulisa: Iikati ezingahlalisana kakuhle zinokuba neentloni kwaye zoyike abantu.
• Amava exesha elidlulileyo: Umothuko kunye nokuxhatshazwa kunokwenza iikati zoyike kwaye zibe novalo.
Ngokunjalo, izinto zokusingqongileyo zinokubangela ukuba umhlobo onomdla abe neentloni kwaye arhoxe. Ziquka:
• Ezinye izilwanyana zasekhaya
• Ingxolo enkulu
• Abantwana abaphila nzima
• Ukufudukela kwikhaya elitsha
• Abanini abangenabubele
Ukuqinisekisa ubomi obutofotofo kunye nobonwabileyo kwikati yakho, unokufuna ukucinga ngokuyifundisa ukuba ingabi nantloni kwaye iqiniseke ngakumbi xa ukho.
Indlela yokwandisa ukuzithemba kwekati
Ngobuchule obusebenzayo bokuhlalisana, unokonyusa ukuzithemba kwekati yakho ukuze izive inentloni kwaye ikhululeke ngakumbi xa ikufutshane nawe. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ayiyi kusebenza kuzo zonke iikati. Kodwa unokwenza obakho bonwabe ngakumbi kwindawo abakuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba banjani na. Ukwandisa ukuzithemba kwekati yakho, zama oku kulandelayo:
• Nikeza ngokudibana ngokwasemzimbeni
• Yenza inkqubo
• Ukudala indawo engqongileyo ekhuselekileyo
• Babonelele ngeendawo zokuzimela
Indlela yokufumana ikati eneentloni ukukuthemba
Ukwakha ubuhlobo nekati yakho yinkqubo enomvuzo. Ngapha koko, oku mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ukhethe isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya. Kodwa akusoloko kulula ukwenza, ngakumbi ukuba ujongene nekati eneentloni.
Nangona kunjalo, yonke into ayilahlekanga. Ngexesha elithile kunye nomonde, unokufumana ikati yakho ukuba ikuthembe. Landela la manyathelo ukuze uqalise:
• Yihloniphe indawo yekati yakho
• Musa ukuba nomsindo ngekati yakho nokuba yenza ntoni na. Ukumngxolisa nokumthethisa kuya kumoyikisa ngakumbi.
• Bukela ulwimi lomzimba
• Funda imida yekati yakho
• Inkxaso encomekayo – mvuze ngokupha xa ekhaliphile kwaye esiza kuwe
Indlela yokufumana ikati eneentloni ukuba ize kuwe
Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukufuya nokudlala nekati yakho. Oku kunzima ukwenza xa unekati eneentloni, ngoko kufuneka umkhuthaze ukuba eze kuwe xa eziva ekhululekile. Gcina ubukho obuzolileyo nobuzolileyo ngamaxesha onke. Ngale ndlela, ikati yakho iya kuqala ukuba neentloni.
Khuthaza ikati yakho ukuba ize kuwe ngezi ndlela zilula:
• Hlala ngokuzolileyo ecaleni kwekati yakho ixeshana, uyivumele ukuba ikusezele.
• Thetha naye ngendlela ezolileyo nethambileyo.
• Yima ngxi ukuba ikati yakho isondela kuwe. Ukushukuma ngesiquphe kuya kumoyikisa.
• Nika ikati yakho into emnandi emva kokuba isondele kuwe. Kancinci ukwandisa ixesha elithathayo ukunika ikati yakho unyango.
• Posa ibhola ngobunono okanye enye into yokudlala ukuze nidlale kunye.
• Ukuba ikati yakho iyabaleka, musa ukuyileqa. Zama kwakhona xa ebonakala ezolile kwaye engenaxhala.
Ukukhupha ikati engakhuselekanga "kwigobolondo" layo kunomvuzo, kodwa akusoloko kunokwenzeka. Ikati enentloni isenokuba sisilwanyana esilungileyo, kodwa kuya kufuneka uhloniphe imida yayo kwaye ube mnene xa usebenzisana nayo.
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