Kwihlabathi apho ingaziwa yonke into ngonqulo kwaye iyantlukwano yonqulo iya ixhaphaka, kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana ngokubaluleka kokubahlonipha bonke (kwaye kukho iincwadi ezilungileyo zazo). Ngokwenza njalo, sinokukhuthaza ukuqonda kunye nokunyamezelana, kwaye sincede abantwana bakhulise imvakalelo yovelwano kunye novelwano kwabo banokuba neenkolelo ezahlukileyo kunezabo. Kweli nqaku, siza kuhlolisisa ifuthe lokufundisa abantwana ukuba bahlonele zonke iinkonzo.
Kutheni ukufundisa abantwana ngeenkolo ezahlukeneyo kubalulekile.
Ukufundisa abantwana yonke into ngenkolo neenkolo ezahlukeneyo kubalulekile kuba kukhuthaza intlonipho nokuqonda zonke iinkolo. Inceda abantwana bakhulise uvelwano kunye novelwano kwabo banokuba neenkolelo ezahlukeneyo kunezabo. Ikwanceda ekupheliseni iinkolelo nekhethe ezinokukhokelela kucalucalulo nokunganyamezelani. Ngokufundisa abantwana ngeenkolo ezahlukeneyo, singenza uluntu olubandakanyayo nolwamkelekileyo apho wonke umntu eziva exatyiswe kwaye ehlonelwa.
Indlela yokwazisa iiyantlukwano zonqulo ebantwaneni.
Ukwazisa iiyantlukwano zonqulo ebantwaneni kunokwenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Enye indlela kukufunda iincwadi ezinabalinganiswa beenkonzo okanye izithethe ezahlukeneyo. Enye indlela kukuya kwimisitho yenkcubeko okanye iminyhadala ebhiyozela iinkonzo ezahlukeneyo. Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngesihloko ngendlela enembeko nefanele ubudala nokukhuthaza abantwana ukuba babuze imibuzo kwaye babelane ngamava neenkolelo zabo. Ngokudala imeko-bume ekhuselekileyo nevulelekileyo yeengxoxo, abantwana banokufunda ukuxabisa nokuhlonela iinkolelo nezenzo zonqulo ezahlukeneyo.
Ndibalekela kwincwadi elula kodwa epheleleyo (kukho ezinye) egubungela isifundo kakuhle, kwaye inesihloko esithi "Konke Ngonqulo“, yindlu yopapasho i-DK (eya kuba yinto entle ukuba iyiguqulele kwaye ipapashe kwezinye iilwimi). Iphendula imibuzo enjengothi Lwaqala phi unqulo lokuqala yaye lalingubani igama lalo? Yintoni kanye kanye ukungakholelwa kubukho bukaThixo? Kutheni abanye abantu benxiba iiturbans? Le ncwadi inikela iimpendulo kule mibuzo neminye emininzi ephathelele unqulo kubantwana ababuza imibuzo enzima.
Ngokombono wam “All About Religion” yintshayelelo efanelekileyo kwiinkonzo eziphambili zehlabathi, eziquka ubuKristu, ubuSilamsi, ubuYuda, ubuHindu, Scientology, ubuJainism, ubuBhuda nezinye, kwaye iquka intshayelelo ka-Aled Jones, umsasazi owaziwayo kunomathotholo nakumabonwakude. Le ncwadi ilanda imbali yeenkolo ezahlukeneyo kunye neenkolo kwihlabathi liphela kwaye yenza lula izihloko ezinzima zibe ngamacandelo anokugaywa.
Ukusuka kwiinkolelo zamandulo ukuya kwiintshukumo zonqulo zangoku kunye nezomoya, i-All About Religion iveza iinyani ngokufanelekileyo. Umntwana unokufunda ngezibhalo ezahlukahlukeneyo zonqulo, aqhelane neendawo zonqulo, aze afumanise isizathu sokuba amarhamente ezinye iinkonzo esitya ukutya okuthile aze anxibe ngendlela ethile. Enyanisweni, le ncwadi incinane inamaphepha angama-96 ikhuthaza ukuqonda, ukunyamezelana nokuhlonela abantu bazo zonke iinkonzo.
Ndimele nditsho ukuba, ngelixa ujoliswe ebantwaneni, lo msebenzi uya kwenza okulungileyo nakwiingcali ezininzi kwiinkalo Inkululeko Yonqulo okanye Yokukholelwa, kunye namajelo eendaba, abangasebenzisi ubuchule babo xa kufikwa kwiintshukumo eziye zanyeliswa ngabantu koorhulumente okanye kumajelo eendaba.
Iingenelo zokufundisa abantwana ngeenkolo ezahlukeneyo.
Ukufundisa abantwana ngeenkolo ezahlukeneyo kuneengenelo ezininzi. Ikhuthaza intlonipho nokuqonda kuzo zonke iinkolelo, inciphisa ucalucalulo nocalucalulo, yaye ikhuthaza uvelwano novelwano. Ikwanceda abantwana baphuhlise izakhono zokucinga ezibalulekileyo kunye nembono ebanzi ngehlabathi. Ngokufunda ngeenkonzo ezahlukahlukeneyo, abantwana banokuziqonda ngakumbi iinkolelo nemilinganiselo yabo, kwaneyabanye. Oku kunokukhokelela ekunyamezeleni okukhulu kunye nokwamkelwa, kwaye ekugqibeleni, uluntu olunoxolo nemvisiswano.
Ukujongana nemingeni enokubakho kunye neengcamango ezingezizo.
Ngoxa ukufundisa abantwana ngeyantlukwano yonqulo kubalulekile, kusenokuzisa imingeni neengcamango eziphosakeleyo. Abanye abazali nabafundisi-ntsapho basenokuxhalatyiswa kukukhubekisa okanye ukubhidanisa abantwana abaneenkolelo ezahlukeneyo, ngoxa abanye basenokoyika ukuba ukufundisa ngezinye iinkonzo kuya kuluphazamisa olwabo ukholo. Kubalulekile uku lungisa ezi zinto zixhalabisayo kunye nokubonelela ngolwazi olucacileyo noluchanekileyo malunga neenkolo ezahlukeneyo ngendlela enembeko nefanele ubudala. Ngokwenza njalo, sinokunceda abantwana bakhulise ukuqonda okunzulu kunye nokuxabisa iiyantlukwano zeenkolelo kunye neenkcubeko kwihlabathi lethu.
Ukukhuthaza ingqondo ephangaleleyo novelwano ebantwaneni.
Ukufundisa abantwana ngeyantlukwano yonqulo kunokuba nempembelelo enzulu ekukhuleni kwabo kwengqondo ephangaleleyo novelwano. Ngokubonisa abantwana kwiinkolelo nezithethe ezahlukahlukeneyo, banokufunda ukukuxabisa nokuhlonela ukwahluka kwabanye. Oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntu abe novelwano ngakumbi nokuqonda, nto leyo enokunceda ekunciphiseni ucalucalulo nocalucalulo. Ukongeza, ukufundisa abantwana malunga iiyantlukwano zonqulo inokunceda ekukhuthazeni izakhono zokucinga ezibalulekileyo kwaye ibakhuthaze ukuba babuze imibuzo kwaye bafune ulwazi malunga neenkolelo kunye neenkcubeko ezahlukeneyo. Lilonke, ukufundisa abantwana ngeyantlukwano yonqulo linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokukhuthaza uluntu olunyamezelayo noluqukayo.
