Sonke sinokuvuma ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya zilungele umphefumlo. Bayasithuthuzela, basenze sihleke, basoloko bekuvuyela ukusibona, yaye bayasithanda ngokungagungqiyo. Nangona iikati ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima ukuzixela ngenxa yokuba zinendalo ezimeleyo kwaye zihlala zikude, unokuqiniseka ukuba umhlobo wakho ococekileyo uyakuthanda kwaye ukukhathalele! Kuphela nje ezinye iikati zibonisa uthando lwazo ngeendlela ezithile.
Ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kukwalungile ebantwaneni njengoko kunokubafundisa izinto ezininzi:
Ixesha elichithwe ngaphandle
Kuyinyani ukuba iikati aziphumi njengezinja, kodwa ukuba uhlala kwindlu eneyadi okanye ufundise iqabane lakho elijikelezayo ukuhamba ngentambo kwaye umthathe kwiihambo zakho ezintabeni - yeyiphi indlela engcono cela umntwana wakho akukhaphe! Le yinkuthazo enkulu yokubeka phantsi ifowuni kwaye ujabulele umoya omtsha kunye nomhlobo ococekileyo!
Ukwakha ukuthembana kunye nolwalamano olomeleleyo nomnye umntu ophilayo
Uhlolisiso lubonisa ukuba abantwana badla ngokukholelwa ukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya zezona zithembekileyo kunabantu yaye bayathuthuzeleka ngokuba nomhlobo onemilenze emine abanokuthetha naye. Ukuba unabantwana abaninzi - umhlobo we-purring unokufaka isandla kubudlelwane babo obuhle, njengoko baya kuba nomdla ofanayo wokudlala nokunyamekela ikati.
Ukufunda uxanduva
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukunyamekela isilwanyana kuluxanduva! Ukukhulisa isilwanyana kuya kubethelela uxanduva lomntwana, imikhwa kunye nokunyamekela - ukunika ukutya, ukutshintsha amanzi, ukucoca amathoyizi ekati okanye ukuwabeka.
Ukubonisa ububele
Ukunyamekela isilwanyana sasekhaya kufundisa abantwana ukuba bahlonele zonke izilwanyana baze baziphathe ngobubele nangemfesane. Kubalulekile ukubafundisa uku:
• Yiba mnene xa ucheba ikati.
• Soloko ufutha okanye ugone ibhokhwe xa ivumela kwaye ihlonipha indawo yaso.
• Kuphephe ukuyichola ikati xa ingayifuni. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana azi ukuba oku akusiyo into yokudlala, kodwa isilwanyana esineemvakalelo, iimvakalelo kunye neentlungu.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, abantwana kunye neekati banokudibana kwaye bahambe kakuhle, kodwa kufuneka kwenzeke ngencoko kunye noqeqesho kumacala omabini. Umhlobo ohlanjululwayo kufuneka aqeqeshwe ukuba alandele imithetho ethile, kwaye abantwana kufuneka bafunde ukunyamekela nokuhlonipha imida yomhlobo.
Ifoto engumzekelo nguJenny Uhling: https://www.pexels.com/photo/blonde-child-with-dog-in-mountains-17807527/
