Izilwane ezihlanzayo zivame ukubonakala zizethemba futhi zingesabi. Kodwa eqinisweni, bangaba namahloni futhi besabe indawo ebazungezile. Kunezizathu eziningana zalokhu, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kuba nje ufuzo lwabo. Kwesinye isikhathi kungenxa yesikhathi esidlule esibuhlungu. Ngenhlanhla, kunezindlela eziningi ongaxhumana ngazo namakati anamahloni. Lapho usebenzisana nekati elinamahloni, hamba kancane ukuze ungalesabi.
Dala indawo enethezekile efaka izindawo eziningi zokucasha futhi ugcine umsindo omkhulu ube mncane. Hlala ulindele ikati lakho ukuthi lize kuwe futhi usebenzise amathoni athambile, athambile lapho ukhuluma nalo. Ukwakha isimiso esingaguquguquki kuzosiza ikati lakho lizizwe likhululeke kakhudlwana, njengoba lizosebenzisa izibiliboco njalo lapho ikati libonisa isibindi.
Amahloni emakati aziveza ngezindlela ezahlukene. Amanye amakati asabekayo abonakala ethukile futhi ethukile, kuyilapho amanye egoduka lapho ezizwa ephephile khona. Ngisho noma udale indawo ephephile nevikelekile yekati lakho, kungase kungenele ukulivimba ukuba lingesabi.
Kungani ikati lami linamahloni kangaka?
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani amakati azizwa ethukile futhi engabaza. Ngokuvamile yehlela ku:
• Ufuzo: Amanye amakati ayasaba ngokwemvelo.
• Ukukhulisa: Amakati angahlalisana kahle angaba namahloni futhi esabe abantu.
• Okwenzeka esikhathini esidlule: Ukuhlukumezeka nokuhlukunyezwa kungenza amakati esabe futhi ethuke.
Ngokufanayo, izici zendawo ezungezile zingabangela umngane onamahloni ukuba abe namahloni futhi ahoxise. Zihlanganisa:
• Ezinye izilwane ezifuywayo ekhaya
• Imisindo ephezulu
• Izingane ezidlangile
• Ukuthuthela ekhaya elisha
• Abanikazi abangenabungane
Ukuze uqinisekise impilo enethezekile nejabulisayo yekati lakho, ungase uthande ukucabangela ukulifundisa ukuthi lingabi namahloni futhi lizethembe nakakhulu lapho ukhona.
Indlela yokwandisa ukuzethemba kwekati
Ngamasu asebenzayo okuxhumana nabantu, ungathuthukisa ukuzethemba kwekati lakho ukuze lizizwe linamahloni futhi likhululeke kakhudlwana lapho linawe. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ngeke isebenze kuwo wonke amakati. Kodwa ungenza abakho bazizwe bejabule kakhulu endaweni abakuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi banjani. Ukuze ukhulise ukuzethemba kwekati lakho, zama lokhu okulandelayo:
• Nikeza ukuthintana ngokomzimba
• Yakha isimiso
• Yakha indawo ephephile
• Nikeza izindawo zokucasha
Ungalithola kanjani ikati elinamahloni ukuze likwethembe
Ukwakha ubuhlobo nekati lakho kuyinqubo enomvuzo. Ngemva kwakho konke, lokhu mhlawumbe kungani ukhethe isilwane sakho. Kodwa akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukwenza, ikakhulukazi uma ubhekene nekati elinamahloni.
Nokho, konke akulahlekile. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nangesineke, ungathola ikati lakho ukuthi likwethembe. Landela lezi zinyathelo ukuze uqalise:
• Hlonipha indawo yekati lakho
• Ungalithukutheli ikati lakho kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lenzani. Ukumthethisa nokumthethisa kuzomethusa kakhulu.
• Buka ulimi lomzimba
• Funda imikhawulo yekati lakho
• Ukwesekwa okuhle - mnikeze izibiliboco lapho enesibindi futhi eza kuwe
Ungalithola kanjani ikati elinamahloni ukuthi lize kuwe
Kungokwemvelo ukufuna ukufuya nokudlala nekati lakho. Lokhu kunzima ukukwenza uma unekati elinamahloni, ngakho-ke kufanele ulikhuthaze ukuthi lize kuwe lapho lizizwa likhululekile. Gcina ubukhona buthule, buzolile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngale ndlela, ikati lakho lizoqala ukuzizwa linamahloni.
Gqugquzela ikati lakho ukuthi lize kuwe ngalezi zindlela ezilula:
• Hlala uthule eduze kwekati lakho isikhashana, ulivumele likuhogele.
• Khuluma naye ngomoya ophansi, nangendlela emnene.
• Yima unganyakazi uma ikati lakho liza kuwe. Ukunyakaza kungazelelwe kuzomethusa.
• Nikeza ikati lakho ukudla ngemva kokuba selisondele kuwe. Khulisa kancane kancane isikhathi osithathayo ukuze unikeze ikati lakho ukwelapha.
• Phonsa ibhola noma elinye ithoyizi ngobumnene ukuze nidlale ndawonye.
• Uma ikati lakho libaleka, ungalijahi. Zama futhi lapho ebonakala ezolile futhi engenakukhathazeka.
Ukukhipha ikati elingavikelekile “egobolondweni” lalo kunomvuzo, kodwa akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ikati elinamahloni lingase libe isilwane esifuywayo esihle, kodwa uzodinga ukuhlonipha imingcele yalo futhi ube mnene lapho usebenzisana nalo.
Isithombe sika-Doğu Tuncer: https://www.pexels.com/photo/close-up-of-a-domestic-cat-16112164/
