Sonke singavuma ukuthi izilwane ezifuywayo zilungele umphefumulo. Bayasiduduza, basenze sihleke, bahlale bejabula ukusibona, futhi bayasithanda ngaphandle kwemibandela. Ngisho noma amakati ngezinye izikhathi kungase kube nzima ukuwasho ngoba anemvelo ezimele futhi evame ukunganaki, ungaqiniseka ukuthi umngane wakho we-purring uyakuthanda futhi uyakukhathalela! Ukuthi nje amanye amakati aveza uthando lwawo ngezindlela ezithile.
Ukuba nesilwane esifuywayo nakho kuyabasiza abantwana ngoba kungabafundisa izinto eziningi:
Isikhathi esichithwa ngaphandle
Kuliqiniso ukuthi amakati awaphumi njengezinja, kodwa uma uhlala endlini enegceke noma ufundise ohamba naye ukuhamba ngentambo bese uhamba naye ohambweni lwakho ezintabeni - iyiphi indlela engcono hamba nengane yakho! Lesi yisikhuthazo esihle sokubeka phansi ucingo futhi ujabulele umoya omusha enkampanini yomngane ohlanzayo!
Ukwakha ukwethembana kanye nesibopho esiqinile nomunye umuntu ophilayo
Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi izingane zivame ukukholelwa ukuthi izilwane ezifuywayo ziyizithenjwa ezingcono kunabantu futhi ziyaduduzeka ngokuba nomngane onemilenze emine ezingaxoxa naye. Uma unezingane eziningi - umngane we-purring angakwazi ukufaka isandla ebudlelwaneni babo obuhle, njengoba bazoba nesithakazelo esifanayo ekudlaleni nasekunakekeleni ikati.
Ukufunda umthwalo wemfanelo
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi ukunakekela isilwane kuwumthwalo wemfanelo! Ukukhulisa isilwane esifuywayo kuzogxilisa umthwalo wemfanelo wengane, imikhuba nokunakekelwa - ukunikeza ukudla, ukushintsha amanzi, ukuhlanza amathoyizi ekati noma ukuwabeka.
Ukubonisa ububele
Ukunakekela isilwane esifuywayo kufundisa izingane ukuhlonipha zonke izilwane futhi ziziphathe ngomusa nangozwela. Kubalulekile ukubafundisa:
• Yiba mnene lapho ugunda ikati.
• Hlala ufuyile noma ugone isilwane lapho sisivumela futhi sihlonipha indawo yaso.
• Gwema ukucosha ikati lapho lingalifuni. Kubalulekile ukuba ingane yazi ukuthi lokhu akulona ithoyizi eligxiliwe, kodwa isilwane esinemizwa, imizwa nobuhlungu.
Impela, izingane namakati bangazwana futhi bazwane kahle, kodwa kufanele kwenzeke ngengxoxo nokuqeqeshwa nhlangothi zombili. Umngane opholayo udinga ukuqeqeshwa ukulandela imithetho ethile, futhi izingane kufanele zifunde ukunakekela nokuhlonipha imingcele yomngane ophuthumayo.
Isithombe sika-Jenny Uhling: https://www.pexels.com/photo/blonde-child-with-dog-in-mountains-17807527/
